what are signs that he doesnt care anymore?

Stan Conley: Actions speak louder than words...

Maynard Reevers: ok these are some sign I would give my gf when i didn't care anymore. i wouldn't call her as much, i didn't really care if we didn't kiss, i would be mean to her, i was always in a bad mood when i was with her, i wouldn't pay attention to her, and after a while i started to care again and that's when she stopped caring. i regret ever being rude to that girl.

Cornelius Thornborrow: doesnt call, always making up excuses that hes busy, etc

Salvatore Walls: Sure it is. I think right now in this country and abroad, marriage & having children is a scary proposition whether you live together or not. Today, the divorce rate is so high due to no-fault divorce. If you have kids, for women - that means they hold all the cards. A man today has to realize that, love and "the dream" aside, the risks to men/fathers far outweigh the rewards. Check the source - some great books and other resources on just t! his issue. Family court is tilted heavily in favor of women/mothers. Moms have all the rights, get all the benefits, and dad is too often relegated to a visitor in his children's lives while being an ATM machine for mom. He can lose half (or more) of the cash, cars, house, investments, etc... and worse - the children. Seriously, if I had known then what I know now about how the divorce machine sucks in fathers, grinds them up, and spits them out so unceremoniously, I would have never gotten married. I would have given up my dream of having a family. With no-fault divorce (the biggest killer of marriage and families) you don't need an excuse anymore to get a divorce. You just don't have to feel like being married anymore - and with that reality comes the truth - a marriage is no longer a contract, so what's the point except to put yourself and your future at risk when someone "doesn't feel like it anymore?" With women (who have children) initiating almost 3/4 of divorces tod! ay (most men don't even see it coming), it's the smart man who! chooses not to get married and certainly not have children... and that's a shame. This affects men, women, and children alike. It affects everyone and people need to wake up to that reality. I know that there are lousy men and lousy fathers in this world - but make no mistake - the are plenty of lousy women and lousy mothers in this world and we should all be treated the same way (good or bad) and that simply isn't happening today....Show more